How do you cure...

[hbionic]

if you dumped her...why would you need to get over it? 'tard.

Long story...but its more like not actively persuing my girlfriend(ex) in order to persue something else...but the something else is a gamble. My now ex is a safe bet, sure shot, no problems kind of girl...and I would probably have a happy life with her. Normal, happy life.

But...I guess I want the fire and the adventure. I'm taking a risk...but its sacrifice and the quality of the sacrifice that's tough to deal with not knowing what's in store for you.

How can you mend a broken heart?
How can you stop the rain from falling down?
How can you stop the sun from shining?
What makes the world go round?
How can you mend this broken man?
How can a loser ever win?
Please help me mend my broken heart and let me live again.

You funny farg! 

Best suggestion aside from not being a Hoyda I can give you is to go to the gym. If you don't belong to one or haven't gone in a while start. There's no better pick-me-up.

That's a good one...looking better never hurt either.

[PhillyGirl]

Hoyda. 

Is the ex the one that we met?

[Wingspan]

if you dumped her...why would you need to get over it? 'tard.

Long story...but its more like not actively persuing my girlfriend(ex) in order to persue something else...but the something else is a gamble. My now ex is a safe bet, sure shot, no problems kind of girl...and I would probably have a happy life with her. Normal, happy life.

But...I guess I want the fire and the adventure. I'm taking a risk...but its sacrifice and the quality of the sacrifice that's tough to deal with not knowing what's in store for you.

in that case, dont be such a Hoyda. get over it.

[hbionic]

Hoyda. 

Is the ex the one that we met?

No...you met the devil's sister....this one was a new one.

[PhillyGirl]

I thought that ex was a sweetheart.

The devil's sister? LOL...you'll have to clue me in on that one.

[hbionic]

I thought that ex was a sweetheart.

The devil's sister? LOL...you'll have to clue me in on that one.

If you only knew. 

[Diomedes]

Time.  And don't look back.  Over is over.

[Susquehanna Birder]

And while it never resolves completely, it does become less important as you go on with your life.

[MadMarchHare]

being divorced once, and in a tough 2nd, if you have a good solid relationship that you'd probably be happy with, why farg with it?

[rjs246]

Other women is always the best cure. To most problems, actually. Just don't monkeyfarg another woman and fall right into a relationship. Then you've defeated the purpose.